Wednesday, April 26, 2006

The longest entry I've ever written........

Hmmm, After 2 weeks I got a chance to check my blog and what I find??? She tagged him and he tagged Moi!!!! Okie -Dokie here is my looong-list of ten things I miss Most in My Life...... ……which will help my readers to fall asleep hahahaha.

1. Indore: Me and D (my sis) were in Indore for 3 years for our studies that was the first time when we were away from home for such long period. It was fun, studies with our cooking experiments and lots of masti every day. I miss a lot of things about that City specially the evenings which me and D spend together in Sarafa Bazaar eating ‘aaloo ki kachori’ and ‘bhutte ke pakode’ with hot tea. And the friend circle, that was just awesome! And I still burst in laugh when I remember the day when some of our friends planed to call spirit with Ouija board .While they were asking questions to spirit, it just made me and Akku rolling on the floor, die laughing, as we believed its fake. Then one hot tempered friend of us got terrifically mad by our nonstop giggling and decided to end the show right there before we can ask some random questions :)

2.Vacations: I loved each and every thing about those summer vacations back home (Kerala) every year, which includes three days train Journey from MP (Madhya Pradesh) to home town, getting the special Hospitality from all close relatives as being “once in a year moon”, roaming like crazy all day long with the gang of cousins, eating green mangoes with salt and Chilly, Fishing but the most special thing was staying at “Kunjamma’s” (mom’s younger sis) home, which was near to sea. Me, D, cousin’s all of us was restricted to go to beach without Escort of any elder person. And we have been smart enough to break that rule whenever Kunjamma went to market by leaving the gang alone at home. Those days will never come back and I will miss them always.

3. My Father in law: I just spend 6 months with him but I feel like, to know him 6 days are more than enough for anybody, he was such a nice , easy going person. We had a big big age difference but when I sat down to listen him for hours I find out he is just like a friend. After hubby left, I was the only one who can dare to talk to him about taking medicines on time and drinking milk (that’s the only thing for which I saw him getting angry on Mother in Law); he was like my father to me without any in “law thing” attached with that. I can never forget the happiness in his eyes when mother in law shown him 6 month old little Bittu first time, for which he waited so eagerly. Our celebration didn’t last long, after three weeks of their first meeting he passed away by leaving all of us in a big shock. It greatly saddens me that my two kids will never get to know their “Achachan” and they won’t have any memories of what a wonderful and loving grandfather he was.

4. My Grand Father: I was more close to my maternal grandparents as I lost my paternal grandparents when I was just 8 years old. I believe that My Nana (mom’s father) was the best grandfather in world.And he was the one who introduced me to the world of books. We spend our lazy afternoons together when he was half lying in his easy chair reading loudly the new poetry book which he brought, and little MoI was listening that sitting on his lap with all my eagerness. He blessed me on my marriage with his precious guidance for a better life but didn’t wait to see his grand -grand son..


5. My parents, Homeland: I miss my parents as badly as any other daughter does and I miss my homeland as any other NRI do. It deserves a whole post to write about both things so, will do it another day.

6. My Nani’s (grand mother) cooking : I miss my mom’s , my MIL’s cooking but more than that I miss my Nani’s cooking. And in sweets the “avalosunda” (Rice laddus) she used to make was just priceless. She is in her eighties and not able to cook any more but if u asks she can answer anything about her cooking even now!!

7. Festivals: I miss all the festivals and things related to it. We celebrate each festival here but it can’t be like that we used to do back home even I try my best.

8. My long thick hair: Every time when I brush my hair I realize with pain that it’s not like before anymore. There was a time when I cried to short my hair as it was a tough task for me every morning to wash them, let them dry first (hair dryer was prohibited just for me while D could use that in her short hairs!!),then making 2 braids of them tying in white ribbons before go to school. My dad never wanted me to short my hair so I stopped trying for it too. But now because of the Kuwaiti weather or water, lack of time to take care of it, 2 times postpartum effect whatever it is but it becomes half of the volume .Anyhow I have managed to keep the length at least 68% of the old one, but I miss those 2 thick braids now.

9. Danijela : She is my ex-boss but I never find a ‘bossiness’ in her, just a friend was there always to listen me. I can never forget how she cared like a elder sister (even she was younger than me) for all those long hours in office while I was carrying my second baby. After sharing those laughing, tears, joking, meeting dead lines, fun filled work environment, all those craziness for 3 years when she decided to go back home for good it was so hard for both of us. We are still keeping in touch and I hope as she wants, one day I will go to Macedonia with my family to see her in a wedding dress holding her prince’s hand.

10. Sandals: Yeah, it sounds weird but it’s true. According to our company policy no open-toed footwear are authorized during working hours, and I miss them whenever I go for a walk to sea side to refresh my mind which stucks with deadlines.

Wow …..it's time to tag somebody, am done with it and now it’s your chance ……..

Lost in Trance (I know you don't have time, but still u need to do it hehehe )

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

For everything there is a season.....or reason?

It was a busy week as usual. Bittu’s Mamma wakes up with hubby’s cell phone alarm 4.40 in the morning (He wakes up first but I can’t sleep after that anyway) and her day begins here which never ends before 11. But she got 3 new reasons to make her feel that “yes it worth, even I have a busy life like this”.

Reason 1: Pravit just turned 8 month yesterday and he has been sitting up on his own since 2 weeks. So happy to see all those cute things about him and it reminds me Bittu’s milestones. And it makes me happier to see both of them enjoying with each other doing all kinda “masti masti”. Thanks to God for giving me the happiness of being a Mom of 2 healthy kids (touch wood!).

Reason 2: It’s always making us feel nice to have somebody care about us and being surrounded by all kind of relations. The other day I came from work and Bittu goes like this to me.
Did you finish your lunch box?
Yes.
Good girl and why you didn’t drink your tea this morning?
I was going to miss the van if I do that, so I didn’t drink.
See, Drink like this (he is doing action of drinking fast) and run fast so you will not miss the van! You should drink your tea, don’t miss it again, OK?
Ok Ok and I just kissed him :)
Later D told me that He saw the tea on table this morning, and he asked maid about it. She said your mamma left it and Bittu was like this “she sits all day in office and she should not leave like that without drinking her tea in the morning; don’t let her go like that Ok?”
It’s so special to listen those caring words from our little ones which we never expect because for us they are always little babies, who can’t think that much, isn’t it?

Reason 3: We buy
this and I don’t know who is over the moon with it, Hubby or Bittu?? :)

PS: Oopsss I forget to tell that I got one more reason to be happy that "Supporting Character " is no more here to bother me as my friend came back :)

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Supporting Character !!!!!!

If Bittu's mamma starts screaming to see superstar Rajnikant's face while surfing on tv chanels it's not because it's getting hot here in Kuwait and she needs to go to mental hospital!!
Then why?Lemme tell you the whole story :(

My supervisor is on R&R, co-worker went on emergency leave at same time, and another one is working just as part time employee so he will be here in evening only. So my manager thot to do a favor for me by sending a “supporting character” from other section for my help for the time being.

Aha what a help!!!I don’t need to set an alarm while sleeping like crazy on Friday morning, he will call me and the conversation goes like
SC: Hello, So you wake up?
Me: yes, tell me what’s up? (grrrrr you just did that, I was sleeping)
SC: I called to ask something.
Me: what happened?
SC: No, I was just asking BROWSE; REINDEX after that CLEAR ALL and then what?
Me: CLOSE ALL
SC: oh yeah Oh yeah I was thinking the same!
Me: Ask “A ‘(who is sitting near to you) or call somebody (V, K, S or M) from downstairs and ask if you got again anything like this Ok?
SC: OK ...bye
Me : Bye (mommyy.........)
He called me and spoiled my Friday morning sleep just to ask next “dBase command”!!!!!!!Ohh Boy

I spend all day deleting the pictures of all his relatives, close relatives, not very close relatives, friends, friend’s friend and roommate’s wife’s father’s and neighbor’s daughter and her family’s (I mean just think of each & every person he met in his life for a single moment) from my inbox. He just talks about a person and next moment he goanna send you the picture of that person!

I don’t need to watch those programs on TV for at least one year which showing funny scenes or famous dialogues (like tumhare paas kya hai? Mere paas maa hai) from Indian movies (yes, I said Indian not just mallu, becoz that includes Mallu, Tamil, Hindi and whatever he watches) as me listening all day those from him!! And I can see Mohan lal and Mammotty and specially Rajnikant's live show in my office without paying charge.

I tried my ‘headphone’, ‘being so busy with lots a work attitude’, and tried to frighten him by saying that ‘may be Manager is listening your high pitch voice from next door.’ But ‘Supporting Character’ is not scared for anything at all.

Mommy , I know it’s bad to talk about a person on his back and you never liked that but believe me, he is sitting in front of me while I am writing this, so hope you are not goanna be mad on me :)